How to Build a Ridiculously Fulfilling Marriage with Nate Bagley
The Dad Edge Podcast
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How to Find Happiness in Your Spouse
Don't, don't search for happiness in your spouse. Search for growth. Happiness is a byproduct. Have you ever heard of like codependency or enmeshment? Oh, yeah. I'm sure you have. Yeah. So just for listeners who might not have heard about this before. Like the idea behind this is that you're not too separate individuals with your own separate thoughts, feelings, perspectives, experiences. You are so emotionally fused to each other that you have a hard time telling your emotions apart from your partner's emotions. And then what you turn into is a manipulative partner. It seems romantic at first, but being too emotionally fused can absolutely tank your marriage.
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