You Say Your Friends Don't Make It?

I think like the, the level of independence that, and like self-reliance, I think that's, that's it. Because you cannot turn to mom and dad and go like, oh, you know, I'm struggling right now. So when you rely on someone, you're, you need them. When you self-relie, you are only, you only need yourself. You're depending on yourself, your own strengths, your own abilities. It's similar to, to being an independent, I guess. But um, yeah, think of it more like, I don't depend,. I don't need anyone else to do this. I'm able to do this