How to Deal With Ambivalence in Your Relationship

I feel like there are learnings for me just even going through this and trying to work through it. I do see merits practically as well. There are points where I'm just ready to submit my two weeks notice without a plan, but I've been talked off that by folks that I trust. You haven't made a decision and you're in the state of ambivalence. So what is it that I am doing that's contributing to this? It's more, what am I doing that’s contributing, not causing, but contributing potentially to this outcome that I keep having? And so we'll need to get some clarity on that.