The Importance of Having a Partner in Life

I can see Catholics who aren't same sex attracted like myself trying to analogize what you were going through to say, struggling with self-abuse or pornography. But do you find that kind of cheapens your struggle? Because you weren't just dealing with an animate computer screen. You were dealing with a relationship with another... I was a longing of my heart. So that is... In a way that pornography doesn't have to be,. It can be., he says. "Underneath every disordered desire is a good and holy desire"