The Difference Between a Choice and a Decision

I wasn't surprised by some feminist reaction to it, but I was annoyed because people would assume that me, someone who's written two books about this stuff and just thought about it pretty deeply wouldn't have. The other thing as well is that inherent in that conversation and that constant critique of women being sexual creatures or doing anything remotely perceived to be remotely sexual or desirable is an idea that men own sex. So when you, Abby, go on a TV show and you behave in a way that feels natural to you because you're an inherently sexual person, you've talked about your love language being physical touch. Somehow, you're not allowed to be in control of that. You have to be