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TMHS 664: Break Dysfunctional Patterns & Build Better Family Connection - With Dr. Shefali Tsabary

The Model Health Show

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Aren't We Always Doing the Best We Can Do?

Shifali: We have to always presume that people are doing their best. The thing the parent needs to ask when they are triggered is why am I being triggered right now? Most likely whatever failure has occurred has already occurred, like the bad grade already done. Whatever we're getting angry with right now has already happened. So do we want to teach our children the resilience of creating change or give them the shame of things that they cannot change? Is it shame for things they already have done and cannot change or is it resilience for things they now can change within themselves?

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