What's Crucial in a Christian Congregation?

Most of what we do in the church is ceremonial nowadays, like catechesis. Why do we do this? Because grandma or mamma, dad said, i have to do this. So wer in o have to adapt and and model it, you know, dif differently. If your child comes not knowing having ever read the bible, cause you didn't read it, eem, i'm going to have to behave very differently with them than i might with a child who's been hearing and reading the scripture from earth. Oh, then you then you're living by the hope that something takes root and grows, and then later you see the fruit. Ok?