i think my negative belief, or one of them, is, oh, no, i'm all alone. So it's definitely child a child self stuff. And and the way that, just like pete's comedy has helped his child self feel safe a i will mirror and lock on to some one else because there's a belief that like, i only exist in relationship with them. Am, but yet, but, but just to hear like, ye, we all exist in relationship to each other. That's not like my own pathology or my own specific problem. Not to say that there isn't some healing that can be done with feeling safe alone."