Don't Be a Stumbling Block for Men

As a child, i was teased by my sister for wearing tank tops. She grew up in a rough spot where we could really use that against her. I've since apologized, and i feel really bad about this a but i'm sharing it. The message is a man's sex strife is not very controllable or not within his control - which makes consent in marriage very messy. It puts women in the position of being the gatekeeper em. Women need to be trained in their youth to stay completely aware of what's happening in a romantic relationship. And our eroticism, our sexual desire, is completely mental, and we have cut that off with like a steel wall.