The more boshit that you're exposed to, the er it is, and the quicker it is to identify it. Part of this is being a realist. You have to acknowledge that there are bad people out there,. And some people have gotten really good at being bad people. The way i identify it now in my life is, i can tell in by three fucking seconds. That's what happens after years and years and years of working to identify what we're talking about here.