I don't think i can productively tell some one what to do unless i know them pretty well. Adam smith says we care that our friends like what we like, and dislike what we dislike. We really want them to hate what we hate. I'm just curious, when you were a telling me how beautiful eleanor ferante's novels are, who i've never read, and now, of course, i'm going to check her out. Her book's out. A, is that selfish? Is that a self centre gall or, is that an altruistical? Are you doing that for mayor for you, or for both?