Raising a Kid in California

I've just always been kind of scared of raising my kid in California. I feel like people are very materialistic here and very, um, judgmental here. Like imagine growing up in all the kids at your school talking about like, Gucci belts. That's the vibe of LA to me. And I just don't want to raise a kid where like, that's what the kids care about is like a Gucci belt. So I'm a little bit torn. It'd be kind of fun to raise my kid like in New York. But notlike in New York City, like somewhere in New York, but I don't know anything about,. I don't really know much