291 | How Far (And Much) I’ve Come: Wyoh’s Update
Sex Stories
Navigating Intimacy and Connection
This chapter reflects on the intersection of dating experiences and creative ambitions, focusing on the journey of self-discovery in sexual relationships. It emphasizes the importance of open conversations about sex, safety, and emotional education while critiquing societal norms and media representations of intimacy.
Wyoh revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.
00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps
04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships
08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work
10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery
15:20 Understanding rejection and communication
18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning
24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences
29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth
35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting
41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences
47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent
52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs
1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics
1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing
1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs
1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others
1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection
1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations
1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"
1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work
1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time
1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work
1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships
1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers
1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts
1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces
2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships
2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices
2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections
2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration
2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series
2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection
2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together
🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED
Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com
Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com
Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com
Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com
Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com
Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com
Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)
Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com
Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan
Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com
Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt
Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown
Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
Come Together by Emily Nagoski
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski
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