Forgiveness Isn't Forgiving, It's Remembering

Forgiving someone is not eliminating the consequences or preventing justice. You may need to forgive someone and call the police, you may forgive them and they may go to jail. Sometimes forgiving involves remembering what happened in some relationships. So for all of you who are holding on to anger, bitterness, justice, revenge, whatever it is, you're holding on to something that you may carry to your grave.