The Mating Grounds Podcast With Tucker Max

You've got to sew enough wild oats before you settle down that you can have a vivid imagination for exactly how it would play out with that particular barista or coworker. And what you don't want to do is confuse variety seeking with, with curiosity. You just have to know enough that you feel comfortable with what you have and you're not curious about other things because curiosity, totally unsated curiosity can be a bit corrosive.