Pegging is a high gear activity and I think a lot of times people just pick up like a pegging kit that comes with a harness and a dildo. When you're looking for a pegging dildo make sure that your eyes are not bigger than the butthole so we're usually engaging an area that might have access to the prostate too. You can work your way up there or you can create an illusion of size but really the anus needs a lot of warming up before anal sex. There's thigh harnesses there's hand harnesses  there's all kinds of ways that you could do it.