Relationships Take Hard Work

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For the first time with a man, i felt like i could be all of myself. I didn't feel like to show up with a mask. He made me feel good in the bedroom. But i wanted to feel good out of the bedroom. So there's two types of reasons people stay in and keep going back. Sometimes it's because it is toxic to some degree. And for people who are in dis functional relationships like that, is, you're like, mantor you wik up every day,. You're like, well, relationships take hard work, and they take hard work. That at a certain point your like, but not this hard well.

Does finding the kind of relationship you want mean conforming to an ideal of what a romantic partner is “supposed to be”? What if you don’t want to conform? Does this mean you’re not cut out for love? To explore further, Shan sits down with both Mandii, from the “See, The Thing Is” and “WHOREible Decisions” Podcasts and Khleo Thomas from Disney’s “Holes”; two successful and fascinating individuals who have come to believe that they are undateable. Not because of any toxic traits, but because their version of life-long happiness is not in line with what society feeds us. Listen in on this conversation as Shan helps these guests figure out what’s broken.

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