Freud's Fort Dah, Lacan's Desire Is What's Left of the Child

Freud says the child is mastering at the level of a game what it can't control in its own lived experience, namely the coming and going of the mom. The spool is a signifier for her but when he's got that spool in a string, he's the master. And this is what gets him through it. Being a good parent means keeping it 300. You know what I mean? Cool, calm, collected. Every hundred because see for century equals a hundred, three C's, cool, calm,. collected. All of which if you add them up, I would say suggest one thing.