Are You Really Being Good at Keeping This Secret?

We've worked with people who are, you know, into pawn and say, i'm not telling my wife that i'm in pawn. And then they say, well, if i tell my wife that, she'll despise me. I say, let's talk about that fear, cause we're all afraid of that. People don't know that these things are workable, and so they hedge bets, and they try to hold out and hide. You can't hide and dance with your partner. Love is a dance. A relationship's a dance. And the emotion is the music. When you're playing a certain kind of music when you're hidingthit just messes the dance