Understanding Fantasy and Arousal in Sexual Experiences

Welcome to Episode 444 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lisa Schaefer VP of Marketing at Promescent, who speaks to me about the biggest trends reshaping sexual-health products and sex-tech innovation.

In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer concrete scripts for sharing kinks without shame, and celebrate self-pleasure as a lifelong birth-right, while sprinkling in resources, exercises, and confidence-building tips you can try tonight.

Then, Lisa joins me to map out the fast-evolving landscape of pleasure products, from wearable vibrating rings that turn penis-owners into “hands-free” vibrators, to blood-flow-boosting arousal gels that help close the orgasm gap, to tech-driven “pleasure-mapping” apps and menopause-friendly solutions. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Listener Q&A On Fantasy & Orgasm

·      Talking Cross-Dressing With Your Partner

·      Celebrating A High Midlife Libido

·      Why Fantasy Is Totally Normal

·      Scripts To Share Your Kink Shame-Free

·      Rise Of Wearable Male Vibrators

·      Arousal Gels That Boost Blood Flow

·      Pleasure-Mapping Apps & Sex Tech

·      Menopause-Focused Products On The Horizon

·      Communication As The Ultimate Toy

Tell Us Your Bedroom Secret (Anonymously) + Win a Sexy Prize!

1)    Record a short audio clip (no need to include your name—we’ll keep it completely anonymous) 

2)    Answer this question: What’s something you secretly wish your partner would do in bed...but have never told them?

3)    Email it to us at by July 15th: help@oasis2care.com

We’ll be selecting a few submissions to anonymously feature in an upcoming episode of the podcast. And yes—you’ll be entered to win a pleasure-boosting gift box from our friends at Promescent!

Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.

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