How to Make a Decision When There's a Tie

In our home, when there's a tie, the person who has the most knowledge and understanding of the topic is the type of it's not well, you're the male. When my husband and I are talking about sushi, he is always going to make the decision. That's your marital preference. It's not your theological position. If you truly are a mutualist and egalitarian belief status, this is about the preference in your home. And women get really hung up on that because they find themselves wanting a spouse like that. They don't even know if that's their desire until they're in it.