Pornography and Sexuality in Relationships

I think there's something in pornography that allows us to step outside of ourselves because there's this taboo or we know this is an alternate environment. I've had experiences of both like drastically in opposite directions and just relationships where it wasn't really a present thing at all. Pornography is a great vehicle to give you a dumbbell feather or something to hold on with to start doing that with someone. Just sitting down and staring at each other and being like I like this is is is you know it's very direct and stuff. If you want to explore someone I think that's a good entry route to just be able to instead of Netflix and chill like pornography and disgust maybe or something another thing