Do You Know What Happened to Me?

You need to tell your daughter about what happened. She's old enough to take this in. You're right that she's thinking about it. And you're also right it's time for her to know about it. When we hide aspects of ourselves, we don't allow them to solve that mystery. We don't let them understand our frustration, our anguish ar ghosts. In that way, they become more mysterious, antoxic, more remote. This is a moment where you an ugly episode has given you the opportunity to break that cycle.