Ampathy vs Ego

i'm trying to figure out, who am i going to be going forward? Because i don't want to focus on the ego and trying to be a big name. But at the same time, the influence that you gain allows you to potentially do a lot more good in the world. I've a feeling that tim cook has taken apple to places that steve jobs never could have. And so there may be a way, it might be actually helpful. Will it ever get the value for being the most popular kid?  I don't know, because people are drawn to that.