What Women Are Betraying Is That They're Not as Sexual as Men

A lot of people have grown up in the idea that men are the sexual ones right they're the ones who are naturally sexual. Women's role on some level is to manage men's sexuality and so if you're a good wife you will basically take care of his sexual desires and feelings at the end of the day this is his love language after all. So it's very much not in the frame that you maybe felt it when you were dating which was about excitement and belonging to your own sense of self and your future. It's something I'm supposed to do if I'm a good wife, she says.