Is Bobby All Right?

I think in my marriage, Bobby needs more sleep than I do. He was always like, well, I'm very busy doing something crazy. And eventually I lost respect for him and we parted ways. So maybe you and your husband have different needs and you love him enough. But if it really bothers you, it will lead to resentment and that resentment will lead to disrespect and you will split. You need to figure out first for you what you're willing to tolerate. Then you need to have a chat and be like, exactly what you said to me, it seems like you'd be happier alone. It's not worth this lifestyle you talk about.