At the very core of your ability to be successful is a set of relationships with each of the people who work directly for you and these are very human relationships this is not merely professional. You've got to care about each of your direct reports not just as an employee not just as a professional but as a full human being if you're gonna build the kind of relationship that is necessary in order to create a culture of feedback. think that would be that'd be great for us to look into and one of the other things even before we get in that I want to ask you about that term care personally too because I noticed in the book that you went to lengths to really emphasize that both of those
Kim Scott: Radical Candor
Kim Scott is a co-founder of Candor, Inc. She has been an advisor at Dropbox, Kurbo, Qualtrics, ReelGoodApp, Rolltape, Shyp, Twitter, and several other Silicon Valley companies. She is the author of the book Radical Candor: Be a Kickass Boss without Losing your Humanity*.
Key Points
Show you care at a personal level.
You can’t build a relationship that’s not personal.
In order to care personally for someone, you have to bring your whole self, not just your “business” persona.
Sometimes we get so focused on the work that we forget there’s actually a person doing the work.
Begin by soliciting feedback, not by giving it.
To get feedback, come up with a go-to question like “Is there anything I could do or stop doing that would make it easier to work with me?”
Resources Mentioned
Radical Candor* by Kim Scott
Radical Candor podcast
Book Notes
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