I think it's pretty colloquially understood that women's fantasies tend to be more contextual, whereas men's fantasies are more like, I just want to sleep with that or that or that. And so if we want good sex, we have to tell that body we're safe. So everything that I was saying, like feeling taken care of, having those consent talks, all of those things,. But also helping her get out of that fighter flight, right?
Dr. Jolene Brighten is a board certified naturopathic endocrinologist, clinical sexologist, and prominent leader in women’s medicine. Dr. Brighten is also part of the MindBodyGreen Collective and a faculty member for the American Academy of Anti Aging Medicine. Her work has been featured in the New York Post, Forbes, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, Bustle, The Guardian, and ABC News. Her latest book is Is This Normal? Judgment-Free Straight Talk about Your Body.
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