Is It the Patriarchy or the Massocism?

i imagine a lot of the women you talked to similarly felt as though actually, there really aren't any rules or boundaries any more. You're just kind of supposed to be ok with everything. And and that was told to you by women. There's a great busfeed story, a that i'm sure you're familiar with, thats a jensieis rethinking sex positivity. A rape victim said, h b o really did a number on me, specifically citing sex in the city girls. So it doesn't seem to me that this is just being thrust on women by the patriarch. It seems to have been coming from women.