If we want to fix it here's the crux of the problem if you're a 25 year old loner. You accept responsibility not only for your own actions but everything on the systemic side too. So once I start taking responsibility for things that are out of my control all I can do is lose and so that feeds the cycle. If there was if it was just you there would be no term like a neat a knee he knee knee. He kukomori. We have all over the world culturally specific terms people are recognizing this phenomenon and assigning words in their own language to describe this. The loner gets replaced by a loser. And when someone kind of crosses into a loser