consistency is huge and patience too because oftentimes like we want people to move at the level of our ability to tolerate what's going on for them. You're not hurting someone by trying to hold them in their own discomfort right so if somebody is uncomfortable but you're helping move them through something that's good for them you're not hurting them actually they're experiencing that discomfort and it's a very loving thing to do. It's part of the stigma to move into kind of a shaming um why did you do that like that's that's ridiculous or you you know better than thatlike this kind of thing that they i mean people will sink right they kind of cower and sink into
Dr. Karlyn Pleasants is a clinical Psychologist who specializes in adult and adolescent psychotherapy. She is also the Chief Clinical Advisor and a managing partner at Anew Treatment Center, Scottsdale AZ.
Megan Harrison holds a master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy with experience in transgenerational trauma and mental illness.
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