The Love at First Sight Myth

There's the stereotype of just, oh, single guy. We all know what that single guy is like. He's this player type. And in general, i think that's a very small percentage of guys. More likely, someone you meet is going to have been in a couple of relationships for a while that didn't work out. So they go in hard and fast and to love us as intensely as possible. But then if they ever stop to catch their breath and actually evaluate whether it's right, they may find out it's not. They're just default love bumber. You can dictate the pace. Don't assume that something means the same thing to somebody else who doesn't