"For the congregation to bleed, the priest must hemorrhage," he says. "I want you to be a gentleman starting today, open the door for your lady." If there's only one fucking pedestal, you must be on it: Tony Robbins or Ed My Lead; Goggins or Jocko or anyone. You become the idealized version of yourself in your life’s story,. Do you want your name at the end and the credits to be the hero and the star? Or do you want taxi driver number two?"