The Golden Bowl

I learned it from her in a kind of like group developmental process called the golden bowl. It's where five or six people that know you really well, you sit in a circle facing each other and they talk about you as if you're not there but can't hear. And so they're basically gossiping behind your back to be conspiring for your good. Ah, mas, people who love you and are ommitted to you. And then you get to hear their feedback about you and your blind spot,. But without them saying it to you directly, but with ing it to each other. I would imagine that your experience in a tribal community is just like that's just happening all the