I Want to See Every Dating Couple Planted in Community

I want to see a culture where the women can actually date, protected and planted in community. The brothers have a calling to protect the sisters. And so many women shouldn't be in a relationship, because god wants to do some healing in your life first. I've seen this for years. But as pastors, we get the phone call. Usually the question isn't, hey, will you bless this? It's: "What do you think about this guy?"