Transformation with Nita M
Organize 365 Podcast
Evolving Roles of Women in Work and Home Life
This chapter examines how women's roles in both the workplace and at home have evolved over time, shifting from traditional binaries to more integrated approaches. It highlights the impact of the pandemic on conversations about work-life balance and the increasing acceptance of flexible work arrangements and community support among women.
In this episode, I introduce you to Nita M. who is married and employed as a stay at home mom by her two young daughters. Nita first found Organize 365® through the podcast. Nita had just turned 40 in February of 2024, after having a baby in November 2020. There was just an energy that she wanted to get back on track. Postpartum had derailed her normally organized life. She’d been watching another organization show when she saw me being interviewed. Nita has her MBA and she connected with the language we use at work being applied to the home. It also clicked that our kitchens are like restaurants and our storage is like a prepaid store. The analogy of the work and home train resonated with Nita, too.
The way you think of your home changes the way you operate. Profitable businesses are always planning, iterating, and looking at the target market they serve; our homes are no different. With these two schools of thought in mind, Nita adopted what her supply chain looks like and is now more prepared. She realized she had to buy toilet paper no matter what so what was the difference of doing it over 120 days or just purchasing it all up front, or set up a subscription through Amazon? When supplies came in, she used to just have them throughout the house, until she realized her guest bedroom closet was being underutilized. Now it’s storage (AKA Nita’s prepaid store) for each 120 days.
I brought up the study by Wayne et al that speaks to the “Invisible Family Load.” Household managers seem to have a positive disposition to the cognitive and management of the invisible load, but a negative disposition to the emotional cost of the invisible load. Nita shared the story of going to an amusement park with her daughters and getting rained out. Her oldest daughter complimented her when she realized how organized Nita was with her car closet. She was prepared with towels and snacks. With systems in place, Nita feels positive towards the emotional cost of “getting” to do all the invisible tasks for her family.
In an effort to learn it all and understand my brain, Nita has invested in all the products. She agrees that for a stay at home mom, The Productive Home Solution® would be a natural place to start. Nita liked that she was able to get her foundation settled, then move on to the Sunday Basket®. Some nights as she and her daughter drift off to sleep, they listen to the podcast, per her daughter’s request. Nita cleans on Saturdays, plans on Sundays, and processes her basket on Mondays. She has two portable Sunday Basket®s that travel with her in her second home, her car. She loves knowing how to create the flow, the manipulation of time that makes her life more smooth. She even gave me an idea to check out the delay start feature on my washing machine. Get those machines working before you even wake up!
Nita’s advice is, “Trust the process. Lisa knows!” She’s constantly quoting Lisa and this is what she says to her friends.
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