I'm Not Going to Lose Out on Anything That Really Matters

Shane O'Donnell: I would stress out way less about my career. He says the anxiety that feeling like you have to change the world in your 20s produces does not actually lead to anything productive. "You cannot put the identity you want to have as a mother, father, husband, wife on the back burner and then just expect it to happen later in life," he says. The Bible is full of examples of how fathers can become mothers when they are older than their wives.