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Bondage can also be mental, you know, there's a lot of scenes where doms will use protocol bondage rather than actual bondage just by being like sit there and don't move because I told you so. There are all kinds of ways to to play with this stuff. It's important to remember that no one kink validates you. A lot of subs who for whatever reason can't do pain play. And they've received this notion that subs must enjoy pain. But if they have chronic illness or,. you know, mental health relationship to pain and can't go there, often they'll show up and say, well, I'm a sub, but I can't do