How to Deal With a Borderline Narcissist or Psychopath

How to deal with the borderline narcissist or psychopath. The most important thing to remember when dealing with any of these personalities is they seek to control you and provoke you into it. They rely on your low using control of your emotions and therefore the situation which they interpret as them then taking control of both this is what they want  they can argue one side of an argument one day and then argue the exact opposite the next day with no cognitive disturbance about it all there is no rhyme or reason to it so don't be surprised by their behavior.