The Importance of Having a Community to Experience Big Events

I had a aunt when I was in college, far as a Christian, who wasn't a real close I want to overstate the emotional event that this was but it was a real event she committed suicide. It made me realize that I did not have the vehicle or communal vehicle to experience that moment. And later I come to see that Christianity is if it's at its best for me, it's the structures for having those experiences in in the real way that we need to experience them and I don't know if that resonatesbut that's that's how I see it.