40. How you get off on nitpicking your partner with Chelsea Horton
The Anxious Love Coach
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Is There a Kink in Being Selfless?
"There's a part of me that doesn't want people seeing me as morally inferior. So it's its bringing consciousness to this unconscious part of me, and then playing and getting off on the things that once brought me pain," she says. She was fascinated by the idea of b d s m: "The things that people, we normally feel pain around, other people have consciously turned it into pleasure."
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