The Proverbs 31 woman image that I have in my mind is contrary to that. And so I often have to like reconcile those two things. Sex starts with a hard penis and ends with a soft penis. Yes. But the more that I've spoken to men about sex, the more that for them, the best sexual experiences are when the women, their female partner enjoys it. It's empowering and reassuring because it's not always who I am.