We can assume that what resonates with you in movies mirrors your own relationship. I thinkthat you could have something going on, which i oftentimes see for men who love their fathers. We don't want to ever admit that they did something that was hurtful or tragic or neglectful towards us. The tricky thing is that the emotional hurt for eight year old yew still existed. Now, the really tricky thing here is that if you don't, if you give, if you make excuses for him, you can't ever forgive him. What what's to forgive? What's to forgive?"