If you want to influence someone Indirectly you got to build a relationship with them, right? And how do you build a relationship trustless and respect and influence? This is something we're talking all the time about it unless echlon front. It's so much better to say hey, where are you trying to get to? Then to say take a right Or take a left or keep going in that same direction now. That can be offensive just try to tell someone the road directions can piss people off Right. There's a literal term for it backseat driver there's an actual term we have for don't freakin directly tell people how to drive because it pisses them off