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Astral Codex Ten Podcast
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I Love but Can You Help Me With My Mathhomework?
Why is this kind of mothering so aspirational, celebrated? What's so bad about obligation that it needs to be shrouded in loves or outright resist? Because obligatory mothering means you matter less than your replacement? No, thanks. My place in the world is unique. And the uniqueness is signalled by regular, public gifts of themselves. I love but can you help me with my mathhome work? No, fine. I'll just go back to wetting the bed and playing with matches. The desire for it to be a mother also satisfies within the adult reader the childish desire to be special. If only my mother did these things for me because she loved me, and not because
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