Ritual is important because it creates a threshold and provides the social support. We hold ourselves very often to brutalizing standards, says Gooey. The more that you have achieved in your eyes at least beforehand i'm guessing the harder it is for you to allow yourself to go back to that place. You've got to basically go to a place where you're saying i am complete neophyte like i am yeah i know nothing," she adds.

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