Forgiveness Is Inappropriate Weaponized in the Church

Church attendance is down all around. The gender ratio in the church has gotten extremely lopsided in favor of women. There was a really big push and a scism that, before i left the church, like, one of the really big pushes in the church was about defeminizing the church. So yes, there is a lot of pressure for women to extend grace to men for almost evrything, including things like infidelity, abuse. But you rarely see the opposite. And often, once again, it's things that give men power and disfranchise women. In my experience, they only practise religion if it gives em some type of power. I don't know