i don't know what i would do if i found i had a kid out there that i've been neglecting all this time. That would be devastating t me. But to call it neglect, that's the wrong word across the board. You haven't been neglectingi have been neglectid. Beeen absent of that's fair. And that would break my heart. I'm involved in that. Yet, neglect has a intent behind it. Aguy just leaves,. you knowat i mean, well, i mean, joe said that his dad has another family, so he clearly just like one. O, embrace the family concept, just not with him, yes? Which