
Making Life Wonderful (1 of 8) An Intermediate Training
Nonviolent Communication - Marshall Rosenberg's NVC Training
00:00
What Is the Need Behind the Judgment?
We don't go to strategies until we've heard the need. So what is the need behind the judgment? Rude. What are they feeling when they say, you're rude and so forh anybody want to help him out? How is this person feeling? I need to feel like mi needs matter. Minees have never mattered. Yes, i do feel neglected. You always neglect. See, it isn't a feeling. That's a diagnosis. Don't say words like that out loud to this person. Ill agree with it, and it will reinforce their jackal thinking. Oh, let's see you laugh when you're in his role. Other people's jackals are always
Transcript
Play full episode