Phoebe Judge: Sandy's mother gave her dexiderine to give her more energy for a party. She says the pills made her feel like "Queen of the World," and she loved them. After stealing from her mother, who was not a good housekeeper,she dropped out of school in 10th grade. Phoebe judge: When you're only 12 years old, when drugs come straight from your mother, you're pretty lucky to make it to 70.